I don't know how many of you follow a certain blog with a failed adoption this week but my heart is broken for her. Seriously I am sitting here bawling my eyes out for her and her husband. In one way I don't know how I feel because I know every birth mother has a right to change their mind and most certainly care for the child they have carried for 9 months and gave birth to. But I also know the hope and excitement of being an adoptive mommy so I get it, both sides I understand. The blogger had been blogging for months of the hope and excitement she had. Of her relationship with the birth mother, her baby showers, everything. All to have it absolutely crumble in the matter of moments. Reading her heart, is breaking mine. Reading about her mom hiding all the babies items and locking the door to the nursery my heart crumbles. Reading about her feelings of incredible deep despair makes me again realize all I have to give thanks for.
So I am off to tip toe into the nursery while my sweet baby sleeps and kiss her good night again. Thankful for a beautiful flawless adoption, a incredibly strong and selfless birthmother and the perfect angel that fills my everyday with joy.
Please pray for her. I don't want to link her blog but just pray for her and her husband. God will know who your talking about...
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I am following the same blog. I am sick for her - it is a horrible situation all around. I am praying that her pain is somehow lessened. We are all crying with her.
Oh my gosh, This just breaks my heart as well. I'm not a follower of this persons blog but my heart goes out to her. This is so sad and must be so difficult for them. I will pray for them most definitely. I pray that God shows them that this didn't happen for a reason and ends up blessing there lives with a baby or babies that will show that them in the end why all of this is happening. I just hope and pray that they will keep trying to adopt. This is a sad ending for the adoptive parents. I just hope they keep trying. There are lots of babies out there that need a mommy and daddy that love them and want them. I will pray for this family. God bless them.
I literally gasped this morning when I read her post. I cant imagine the pain they must be going through. Its hard not to be angry with the birthmom. I know that God does not give us anything we cannot handle but this just seems like too much for this family. Way too much.
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I have been following, too! I so badly wanted to put something on my blog about it, but didn't think it was appropriate yet you worded it exactly so as not to give anything away. My heart is breaking for her and she has definitely been in my prayers this week! I cannot imagine the devastation she (and her husband) are feeling.
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